Consider Adopting Older Children

Once adoptive parents begin to look into adoption, sometimes they find that the more they learn, the more God opens their hearts to the needs of children who are older. The desire to adopt a brand new baby changes into a desire to be parents to a child who needs them,...

All I Want for Christmas…

With the holiday shopping season upon us, many adoptive parents-in-waiting feel a need to bite their tongue when asked what they want for Christmas.  The undeniable urge is simply to say “All I want for Christmas is a baby.”  Of course, while working daily toward...

Building Your Adoption Budget

Keep it growing throughout your journey   Some families raise funds to begin the process, then jump into adoption whole-heartedly, trusting that the money they’ve raised is enough or that there will be time later to raise more, save more, or find more.   My...

Gratitude in Action

Many parents-in-waiting find Thanksgiving to be a challenging time of year.  Everyone counting their blessings when you are still waiting for the blessing you most desire: a child to call you Mommy or Daddy.   There’s no doubt about it – it can be difficult to...

Speaking With Birth Parents

Preparing for the first contact   Many people are fearful of speaking with birth parents. “I don’t know what to say” or “I’m fearful of saying the wrong thing” are common statements that I hear. Those thoughts and feelings are completely normal.   The best...