Who Are You?

As you write about yourself in your Dear Birth Parent letter or create your adoption website or Facebook page, you have likely spent some time figuring out who you are and what you have to offer a child.    If you are in the waiting phase and it seems as though...

Surrender

When you have done everything you can toward your adoption, it is time to surrender. But what does that mean in adoption? It simply means to rest, maintaining your hour-a-day work, but release the hopes and dreams to God. He hasn’t brought you this far to drop you....

Adoption Excuses

How to Handle Procrastination in Your AdoptionAdoption is similar to many other endeavors in life – it takes time and devotion to accomplish your goals.  Sometimes, we think “I don’t have time today, I’ll start tomorrow.”  Or “It’s too big of job to do tonight, I can...

We’re Pregnant!

When a surprise pregnancy happens during adoption You know you’ve heard it before…  You tell someone you are starting the process of adoption only to hear, “Now you’ll get pregnant!” It’s frustrating, especially after trying so hard for so long to be pregnant.  For...

Free Online Adoption Networking: Facebook

Do you have a standalone adoption website you have created? Maybe you’ve been paying for Google AdWords or promoting it on Craigslist or other online venues.  But have you optimized a message for Facebook sharing? Your Facebook friends can be some of your best online...

Maintaining Contact AFTER Your Adoption

Picture Update Tips It may seem premature to think about the contact you will have after the adoption with your child’s birth mother, but a lot of the waiting to adopt time is meant for preparation and education. What you think about, read, and plan for now is getting...

Webinars and Check-ins: Are they important?

Dear Mardie, I have been reading and listening to everything on the website. How important is it to attend the webinars live or check in with my coordinator? I don’t feel like I need more information. And I don’t really feel a need the check in.   I’m glad that...

Birth Fathers and Adoption

Many women believe erroneously that the father of their baby has no say in what she does.  After all, she could go abort the baby without his consent and against his wishes. She can chose to parent the baby without his consent and against his wishes. Shouldn’t...